How to beat the inner bully that's been keeping you average
There is a voice in your head, and it is not on your side. It doesn't call you names. It tells you to be realistic. And quietly, for years, it has been talking you out of your own life.
Somebody set the thermostat on your life before you were old enough to know there was one. Your family had beliefs about what was possible for people like you. Your neighborhood had rules about what got respected and what got laughed at. You absorbed all of it before you could argue with any of it.
Then that outside voice moved inside your head and started running the show. That voice has a name. It's your inner bully. And it has been keeping you average on purpose.
This is not another book about gratitude lists. It's direct, it's funny, and it's written by a guy who has fought this exact voice in his own head and lived to tell you how. It hands you the tools to recognize the bully, refuse its vote, and walk out of the comfortable little life it built for you.
The declaration isn't that you're going to become extraordinary starting now. It's that you're going to stop working against yourself on behalf of a standard that was never yours.
You were never average.
Average was installed in you.
It's time to evict it.
Author. Builder. Bear-hug in human form.
Biggg T believes the worst thing you can do with your one life is sit it out because you're scared of what people might think. He's been knocked down plenty, and he's gotten up every time, more convinced each round that the people too afraid to look foolish are the ones missing the whole thing.
He's a husband, a father of five, a builder of businesses and other people, and a 6'4", 280 lb reminder to do the dance, sing the song, and live the life while you still can. He wrote this book to talk you out of the only thing that's really been holding you back: the fear of being judged for trying.
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